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  • Jayne Green (B.Ed;M.Ed)

Our Children, Digital Dilemmas, and the Imperative of Parental Guidance

Throughout my journey as a teacher, spanning from Prep to Year 12, and as a counsellor, I've borne witness to the transformative and sometimes destructive power of social media on our youth. Today's digital era, while rich in opportunities, has also spawned countless challenges.

These encompass unsafe behaviors, online bullying, depression, distorted self-perceptions, and even tragic outcomes like suicide.

The Digital Pandora's Box The virtual world often does not censor its content for young, impressionable minds. From graphic violence, explicit content, hate speech to even malicious individuals with nefarious intentions, the internet is riddled with pitfalls. Today's children, unless guided, can inadvertently stumble upon this maze, consuming information that might not align with their emotional or mental maturity.

Pop Culture's Dubious Role Models In a world obsessed with 'likes' and 'followers', celebrities wield enormous influence. While many harness this for positive change, others, sadly, propagate questionable standards. Take, for instance, some of Miley Cyrus's performances. Such overt and explicit displays, while labelled as 'art', often do a disservice, especially when young girls interpret these as the gold standard for beauty or sensuality.

Similarly, the music industry has its share of lyrics that reduce women to mere objects. When our youth continually consume such content, it can distort their understanding of respect, consent, and healthy relationships.

Alcohol, Peer Pressure, and the Australian Paradigm In Australian culture, where alcohol often takes center stage, it's imperative to teach our youth about its responsible consumption. More importantly, to understand that self-worth is not derived from inebriation or peer validation.

Leading By Example Our youth, while navigating their path, often look up to adults as beacons. Sadly, what they sometimes observe is far from exemplary. From political leaders to sports icons, the actions of some might send confusing signals. As adults, it's our duty to help children discern right from wrong, even when societal role models falter.

Education Beyond the Classroom While schools strive to integrate social consciousness and mental well-being into their curriculum, the real education begins at home. Open dialogues, frequent check-ins, and simply being present can make a world of difference. These conversations, tailored to their age and understanding, act as their armor against the world's complexities.

From my personal experience, it's heartening to see my daughter and son-in-law champion these values, cultivating a nurturing environment for their children. Their unwavering commitment to their children's holistic development, both academically and socially, is a testament to the power of proactive parenting.

The Way Forward In this digital age, where information is at our fingertips, it's the wisdom to sift the wheat from the chaff that we must impart to our children. To instill in them the discernment to differentiate between the meaningful and the superficial. To ensure that they grow into individuals who, when they reflect back on their lives, can say with conviction, "I had a good life".

Our children's well-being hinges on our guidance. Let's be the lighthouse they need in this vast, often confusing, ocean of life.

Jayne Green (B.Ed; M.Ed)

Masters Degree Teacher and Qualified Guidance Counsellor


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