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  • Jayne Green (B.Ed;M.Ed)

Understanding Childhood Sexual Abuse: Shedding Light on a Pervasive Issue

Childhood sexual abuse is a deeply disturbing and pervasive problem that affects millions of children worldwide. Despite its prevalence, it remains a taboo topic, often shrouded in silence and shame. In this blog post, I aim to break that silence by providing a comprehensive overview of childhood sexual abuse, its prevalence, forms, and the crucial importance of recognizing and acknowledging this issue.

Defining Childhood Sexual Abuse

First and foremost, it's essential to understand what constitutes childhood sexual abuse. It refers to any sexual activity or exploitation inflicted upon a child by an adult or older adolescent. This can include a wide range of behaviors, such as fondling, genital touching, oral-genital contact, penetration, exposure to pornography, or sexualized language or gestures.

Prevalence of Childhood Sexual Abuse

The prevalence of childhood sexual abuse is staggering. According to research, approximately 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 6 boys will experience some form of sexual abuse before the age of 18.  

I believe that these numbers are based only on those who have disclosed and doesn't include the large numbers of children and adults who have never revealed sexual abuse. I have counselled children and adults who have disclosed sexual abuse, and my experience suggests that it could be as high as 1 in 2 girls who have experienced sexual abuse, and possibly the same number for boys. Unfortunately boys and men, are more reluctant to speak about sexual abuse, and especially if it was perpetrated by a male. These statistics underscore the urgent need to address this pervasive issue and provide support for survivors.

Forms of Childhood Sexual Abuse

Childhood sexual abuse can take many forms, and it's not always easy to recognize. It can occur within families, by trusted caregivers, acquaintances, housemates and/or strangers. Furthermore, perpetrators range from individuals (male and female) to couples in intimate partner relationships, and groups of people male and female, who sexually abuse children. Additionally there are depraved cults who use children in sexual play as part of their demonic rituals. This can also include torture and other forms of depravity. For example in one case, a child was put into a coffin when their sister died, as part of this sick and twisted ritual, making her lie on top of her sister's corpse. When asked how she felt, she said that her sister had suffered the same depravity by her parents and their demonic cult, and she was just glad to be able to hold her close in her arms and know she was at peace. It is hard to imagine that children are subjected to such horrendous events that scar them for life, however this type of depravity exists, and the more we encourage people to talk about it, without shame, the more society will become aware that sexual abuse is highly prevalent in society and we can do more to educate the young, their families and parents, and try to prevent this from occurring.

Grooming and Manipulation

Perpetrators often use manipulation, coercion, or threats to maintain control and silence their victims. Additionally, childhood sexual abuse can occur online, through grooming and exploitation on social media platforms or gaming sites.

Importance of Recognition and Acknowledgment

Recognizing and acknowledging childhood sexual abuse is a crucial first step in addressing this issue. By shining a light on the reality of sexual abuse, we can break the cycle of silence and stigma that surrounds it. It's essential for survivors to feel heard, believed, and supported as they navigate their healing journey.


In conclusion, childhood sexual abuse is a pervasive and deeply harmful issue that demands our attention and action. By understanding its prevalence, forms, and the importance of recognition and acknowledgment, we can work towards creating a safer and more supportive environment for survivors. It's crucial to continue advocating for prevention, education, and support services to protect the most vulnerable among us.

Let us stand together in solidarity with survivors of childhood sexual abuse, offering compassion, validation, and support as they heal and reclaim their lives. Together, we can break the silence and create a brighter future for generations to come.



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